"Chivalry is only a name for that general spirit or state of mind which disposes men to heroic actions, and keeps them conversant with all that is beautiful and sublime in the intellectual and moral world."
Digby's The Broad Stone of Honour
Chivalry used to note the characteristics of knightly virtues, honor and courtly love. Men of noble ranking were taught how to behave in court and on the battle filed. Also how to treat a lady.
Times have changed and women are more independent these days. Men do not need to keep and take care of us. Don't get me wrong we females do like to be treated like princesses more often then not. We do not need to be taken care of. But we like to know that the man we have a heart set on would. The concept of chivalry has changed with the times. Chivalry now means being kind and courteous to anyone, regardless of romantic interest. This means helping the older woman or man carry groceries to their car, or even simple things such as saying "Bless you" when someone sneezes. And yes holding the door open.
If anyone is in need of a quick history lesson on the run-of-the-mill noblemen in the Middle Ages. Pick up Cilvalry by Maurice Keen. No guaranty you will find a proper lady but you may find many more propositions.
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